returned from port stephens weekend last night...will post more abt that and put on some photos too once i have a little more time. in the mean time, have spent entire morning and so far writing out christmas cards. so disorganised this year! it's like 5 days to christmas and i haven't sent out christmas cards yet! so if u guys read this and on christmas day your card hasnt arrived, then it's probably still in the mail!

had this weird dream last night. dreamt i bumped in J & A in this shopping centre toilet and dreamt that J & J had quarrelled again and were having a spat. then after telling her what i thought was possibly wrong with their relationship which i've probably never dared to tell her in entirety coz afterall its only my thoughts and i could be wrong, she listened, thought abt it and accepted it and then she made up with J after that and they lived happily ever after! it's either my narcissistic nature asserting that i must always be right (which is kinda like me) or it's probably a belief that marriage is abt happily ever after. but is there ever a perfect marriage on earth?